Ephesians 4:15 - "But speaking the truth in love" - It seems that there are 2 types of Christians. Those who focus on the "love" in this verse & those who focus on the "truth" portion of this verse. This verse gives a great balance for our communication. We ought not be ashamed to tell the truth, but let's not forget to do it in love. This will save many hurt feelings. Truth & Love, not truth or love. Speak BOTH.